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Mr TM - Help Me Somebody

2008-04-18T10:33:00.001-05:00

Crooner,

I’m in a bad situation that I didn’t create. My wife’s niece is 27, I’m 29, and my wife is 32. My wife has always treated her niece like a sister and gave her a key to our house. She comes over almost every day. I work in the evening time and my wife works in the morning. Usually when she comes over, I am in my bedroom working on the computer or watching television. She normally stays in the family room talking on her cell phone. A few days ago, I heard a knock on my bedroom door and went to see what she wanted. When I opened the door she was standing there crying and I asked her what was wrong. She said that she and her boyfriend had broken up and she just needed someone to talk to. I walked back to the family room and talked to her for a few minutes before she asked me if I had anything to drink. The only thing I had was some red wine, so I offered it to her and went back to my bedroom. I had to get ready for work and went to take a shower. Normally I lock my bedroom door, but for some reason I forgot. While in the shower, I heard the bathroom door open. It startled me and I asked ‘what is it?’ without saying a word she opened the shower door and got in with me. She said, ‘I need you.’ I ran out the shower, dried off and put my clothes on. I left the house and went to work. I called my wife twice, on the way to work and when I arrived. Both times I was unable to say anything about her niece. Who should I talk to about this situation, my wife, her niece, or both of them at the same time?

Help Me Somebody

Mrs. TM Ref : Help Me Somebody/My Husband

2008-04-18T10:31:00.001-05:00

Mr. Johnson,

I am still trying to understand how people could call in to a radio show and make the kind of comments I heard, without even knowing a person. The only radio stations that we listen to are Christian programming and for my husband to be involved with a program like this proves that something is wrong with him. I was shocked and disturbed that people are so evil. Let me try to set the record straight. My niece is not the monster that people have made her out to be. She was the President of her high school’s Abstinence and Moral Responsibility Committee; she graduated at the top of her class and received a full academic scholarship to Brigham Young University. Her college years were cut short when she was fooled into thinking that she was going to attend a student bible study session, instead, she was drugged and raped repeatedly for over eight hours by several men. It took three years of counseling to bring her out of the traumatic state that she was in resulting from this violent attack. Four years later, through prayer and the support of her family, she finally left out of her mother’s home.

The only place she goes is to church or my house. She just started dating for the first time in her life just three months ago. She also started teaching Sunday school for children. For the first time in over seven years, we finally started to see some normalcy in her life again. My sister called and told me something was wrong with my niece the night before we found out what had happen. My husband still has not admitted to doing anything wrong; however, our pastor said that he did admit to ‘finding her attractive.’ That alone is enough for the ‘spirit of lust’ to infect the brain and make of man of God do evil things. We will get to the bottom of this and God will be the final judge. My husband has been sanctioned by the church for putting this out on the radio and he will be punished by the Elders.

I was blessed by our pastor who allowed me to respond to the witches and devils whose tongues have spoken guile words against my niece. Go with God.

Mrs. TM

Pat Buchanan's Speech

2008-04-04T02:43:00.002-05:00

this is a copy of Pat Buchanan's speech from a few days ago, it was given in response to obama's speech on race.From Buchanan's March 21 column:Barack says we need to have a conversation about race in America.Fair enough. But this time, it has to be a two-way conversation.

White America needs to be heard from, not just lectured to.This time, the Silent Majority needs to have its convictions, grievances and demands heard. And among them are these:

First, America has been the best country on earth for black folks. It was here that 600,000 black people, brought from Africa in slave ships, grew into a community of 40 million, were introduced to Christian salvation, and reached the greatest levels of freedom and prosperity blacks have ever known.Wright ought to go down on his knees and thank God he is an American.Second, no people anywhere has done more to lift up blacks than white Americans.

Untold trillions have been spent since the '60s on welfare, food stamps, rent supplements, Section 8 housing, Pell grants, student loans, legal services, Medicaid, Earned Income Tax Credits and poverty programs designed to bring the African-American community into the mainstream.Governments, businesses and colleges have engaged in discrimination against white folks - with affirmative action, contract set-asides and quotas -- to advance black applicants over white applicants.Churches, foundations, civic groups, schools and individuals all over America have donated time and money to support soup kitchens, adult education, day care, retirement and nursing homes for blacks.

We hear the grievances. Where is the gratitude?personally, i don't know where to begin since there are so many inaccuracies .. but i waiting for mainstream media to pick up on this like they did rev wright.

Corey

Good Black Man !

2008-03-23T03:02:00.001-05:00

Good Black Men! are indeed all around us. We pass them on the streets, in the malls, and at work. Most we can't see because we don't know what a good black man really looks like. He usually isn't flashy enough or rich enough to turn our heads. He might not wear a suit or push a Lexus. He might not have a body like Tyson with a Denzel face. But, as you mature, you realize it's better to find someone who's got your back rather than someone who turns your head.

A good black man doesn't agree wholeheartedly with everything you say. He doesn't just tell you what you want to hear and do the opposite. He doesn't declare how sensitive, sweet, caring, sincere, etc. he is (he won't have to because it shows). He has his own opinions and yours may clash, but he doesn't have to degrade you to prove he's right. He even admits at times to being wrong, especially if you are willing to do the same.A good black man is not going to meet every item on your checklist.

He is human with frailties and faults mixed in with all of his wonderful, strong attributes. He needs your love and respect. He needs to feel that you don't live to catch him doing something wrong so you can declare, 'Aha! I knew you were a dog!'A good black man isn't insecure about his woman having great achievements. In fact, he is her number one supporter and becomes disappointed with her when she begins to lose herself, especially for the sake of not hurting his feelings, or only wanting to make him happy.

His happiness comes with seeing her excel in her dreams and accomplishing her goals. For as she excels and is exalted, a good woman will bring her good man right along with her. THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!! A good black man doesn't necessarily give you a huge birthday or Valentine's gift. He shows his love in the ways that are comfortable to him. Don't judge him by TV standards. No one is really living a fairy tale. You'll miss out on your own fairy tale by buying into the myth that our black men are no good. It's just not true.A good black man is a man of his word.

He says what he means and means what he says. His word is his bond. He never leaves you wondering if he is going to call or show up - he is dependable. That is right! A good black man has a love and a heart for his Higher Power. As his relationship and love with that Higher Power grows so will his relationship and love with and for you grow. (AMEN!!!)Our beautiful black men, we salute you, apprec iate you and thank you for who you are and all you've done.

Pass this along to some of the Good Black Men you know and a few black women that need to read it .. So that they can recognize a good black man.

How to make a man happy - Resp by numbers please

2008-01-22T00:21:00.000-06:00

How To Make Men Happy

10. Charm
Charm is what draws men to those women who are not as good-looking as the others in our black book.

9. A statuesque body
We may not admit this to them, but when we're walking down the street with our women, we want to show them off

8. A beautiful face
A pretty face can get away with murder. Remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder

7. Honesty & trust
When the games are played, final rounds called, and booty calls over, we want someone we can confide in.

6. R-E-S-P-E-C-T:
The last thing we want, is a woman who lets us down, embarrasses us and makes us out to be fools, especially in public. Gentlemen, there is nothing wrong with admitting that we are excessively proud

5. Sense of humor
This will forever remain a priority for any man. We work hard, we put up with a lot, and we need a woman who will put a smile on our faces when things are gloomy

4. Intelligence & confidence
Previous generations probably preferred a smart woman -- not just book smart, but also street smart.

3. Ambition & drive
If a partner is what you seek, then you will have to find a woman who will challenge your thoughts, stir up your emotions positively and give you a run for your money.

2. Heart of goldIf you are looking to get involved for the long haul, a kind woman with a heart of gold will nurture you and offer the compassion, sincerity, warmth, and affection you need to make it to the top.

1. Love
when all is said and done and the ink has dried up, the first dates turn into the honeymoon stage, and the relationship develops, all men really want is love and sex.

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2007-12-19T11:59:00.000-06:00

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2007-12-17T00:27:00.000-06:00

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I got daddy baby drummer

2007-12-03T23:08:00.000-06:00

Dear Crooner, I got daddy baby drummer
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I must first say, I love your website and show. I have been on Willisdacrooner.com from Day One to five or six times a week now. I tried to add my crooner letter to your “To The Letter Writer Post” with no luck, I want to get feed back and be able to find it with out searching all over the post comment section. Please please add it there for me and I will buy you a catfish basket at a MAVS game.

To make a long story short, I met this lovely and fine ass woman at an oak cliff club in June of this year. I know she is the one for me. We are the bomb in and out of bed. She have three children by two different men and that’s my biggest problem. They complain about me being there over night. My thing is, they aren’t running SHXT! Their bay bay kids call them every time I stay over night. Willis I got to go or the no good daddies need to get their kids sometimes during the week and weekends. That way they won’t see me and I won’t see them!!

Men complain about baby momma drummer, but this daddy baby drummer from two men that are mad about a woman that got their baby’s momma is too too much for me, Should I go or should I stay ! PS: Put in the “To the letter writer please !

Ms Man

Shooting match with my boss

2007-11-19T23:25:00.001-06:00

Crooner,I got into a shouting match with my supervisor at worktoday and we both called each other names. Badnames.....and then I was told to take Friday off. I'venever been so angry in my life and it hurts even morebecause she was a woman like me. Two black womenacting a fool and 35 other people on my shifht lookingat us.But I refuse to be talked down town and emabarssedverbally by someone who is my professional superiorbut not my mental superior. Im sure I should havehandle it better but she continues to down blackpeople and she is harder on us than anybody else.I want to know what my legal rights are and why do WEhate on each other the most.?

I've been seeing this one man for 4 years

2007-11-19T23:23:00.000-06:00

Crooner,I've been seeing this one man for 4 years now and ourrelationship has been off and on and a lot of it isbecause of my emotions. I can't stand the thought ofhim cheating, because I wouldl never be unfaithtul tohim and I explained this up front before we ever gotserious. That my one pet peave is cheating.Im not like some of this women who look the other wayor let it slide or forgive ....I DONT DO CHEATING...PERIOD. Well there have been a couple of instanceswhere the circumstances smell fishy and my emtionswithout facts caused a break up but because of hislove for me, we got back together.In that breakup he took back his key to his place andat the time that was understood becuse we werefinsihed, but after we got back together again andthings have been great...he has not offered the keyanymore. Again, things have been great for us but thekey has not come up and I want to know if I would bepush or out of order to ask for it?

Cosby's plea to parents

2007-10-30T20:57:00.000-05:00

Cosby's plea to parents:

Before you get to the point where you say 'I can't do nothing withthem do something with them. Like: Teach our children to speak English.There's no such thing as 'talking white. When the teacher calls, show up at the school.When the idiot box starts spewing profane rap videos, turn it off.Refrain from cursing around the kids.Teach our boys that women should be cherished, not raped and demeaned.Tell them that education is a prize we won with blood and tears, not a dishonor.Stop making excuses for the agents and abettors of black on blackcrime.It costs us nothing to do these things.But if we don't, it will cost us infinitely more tears.

Old Fart

Women do lie sometimes !

2007-10-30T20:55:00.000-05:00

I agree that women do lie about who the fathers are sometimes, but more often than not, men walk away from women and children at a much higher rate than women lie about the father. That is exactly why it is on a TV show. To answer your question, I think paternity tests are an excellent idea. However, it still won't solve the problem if the fathers and mothers are uneducated and unemployed. Poverty ain't pretty no matter who is sitting in. I think young women and men should be more aware of the fact that children aren't proud of parents who can't provide for them. They are just stuck with them as a birthright (or wrong). I have yet to see a kid who proudly announces that they don't have money for food, clothes, school supplies, or recreational activities. Their heads are usually bowed in shame when they refer to such situations. By the way, I'm taking care of two children who had two parents who walked away. Who is willing to take care of these children then? Whether you know it or not, we all do in the form of foster care. Then many of them move right on over to the prison system. Oh yes! The working folks pay, and we ain't the parents. Black men and women need to stop thinking about self and start thinking about the children we bring into the world and what kind of life they will have. The better the start in life, the better the finish in life. We need to be more caring and loving to our children even if we don't give birth to them.

Hate

Why are Kids so violent today?

2007-10-24T20:11:00.000-05:00

Why are kids so violent today? and why is this made out to be a racial attack? if it was racial why didn't they attack the white kid who was filming the fight?! the kid who filmed this said it was a planned fight to be put on myspace! he also said he didn't hear any racial slurs directed towards the white kid. the reason its turned into a racial attack is because some adult found out about the video, reported it to police and the white kids are trying to save their own ass from being in trouble, because I think this is somehow gang related! even the local police thought it had something to do with gangs! because the story from the kid just doesn't add up! you can hear the kid laughing the whole time he was filming the attack! why was he laughing? anyway they should all get what they deserve! stupid kids stop fighting and thinking you're gangsta, go 2 school! why are kids so violent today?

Megan Williams

2007-09-21T10:44:00.000-05:00

Police said Bobby Brewster raped Williams, forced her to lick blood and drink from a toilet, and told his mother to kill Williams if she tried to escape.

Authorities previously said Williams was also forced to eat rat and dog feces. According to criminal complaints filed in the county, Williams was assaulted, stabbed in the left leg, choked with cords and beaten for at least a week. When she was found, big parts of her hair had also been torn off of her scalp. Williams says that Alisha Burton 22 cut her ankle with a knife while saying, "That's what we do to Niggers around here," police records show. "I don't understand a human being doing another human being the way they did my daughter," Carmen Williams told The Associated Press on Tuesday from her daughter's hospital room. "I didn't know there were people like that out here." Deputies received a tip and Saturday visited a home owned by Frankie Brewster in Big Creek, West Virginia. As the deputies spoke with a woman on the front porch, "a female inside the residence limped toward the door with her arms held out, saying 'Help me,' " according to a news release from the sheriff's department. "It's something you'd expect to see in a horror movie, not in Logan County," Abraham said. "She was subjected to unendurable torture down there." See videos and more information of this story on http://www.willisdacrooner.com

Your Comments Please.

My step-daughters biological dad

2007-08-15T23:34:00.000-05:00

DILEMMA:I’m faced with meeting my step-daughters biological dad after 20 years (all of her life) of raising her as my own. I DO NOT want the guy to come to my house. However, my wife seems to think that I’m being mean to my daughter by denying her the opportunity to meet with her dad on her own turf.

BACKGROUND:Married 18 years to my daughters motherI have a son age 21 who has been with us (me all of his life) since the marriage.My daughter and I suffer from a personality clash, she’s narcissistic/sanguine and I’m more of a phlegmatic/choleric type. This strained relationship spills over to my marriage.

QUESTION: Should I stick to my guns, or should I allow this meeting to take place in my house for my daughter’s sake?

HELP!

SHALOM

Pitbull dog rapes 2 year old

2007-07-15T01:15:00.000-05:00

Did you hear about a 2 year old baby being rapped by a pitbull dog ?

What should happend to:

Mother ?
Dog ?
Baby ?

Hear the story here: http://players.eonstreams.com/FastAim/Player/Player.php?PlayerID=419&MediaURL=http%3A%2F%2Fmmslb.eonstreams.com%2Fb%2Freachmedia%2F071307%2FCLAUDINEEWING.wma

Black Business People in Dallas and Ft.Worth

2007-07-13T02:27:00.000-05:00

Come on, Black Business People
Willis I'm buying a house and a new car in the next few months and I'm trying to be a part of the solution, so I go on your website and click the DFW Business pages banner and not one brother or sister is there for what I need. I know it's a new website but I need to see a barber, church and others good places to go. Now that food page is looking good and I will be taking my family to dine in a few on there when I move them from the ATL next month. I've been in Dallas on my new job for thee months and black people you need to get busy on doing business with each other. That's the only way we can make it...... Willis you have a very good radio show, my co-workers at the P O turn me on to KKDA and now I'm a fan for life......

I'm in love with a Dallas police officer

2007-06-27T22:37:00.000-05:00

Crooner, I'm in love with a Dallas police officer and I want to marry him, but the attitude he brings home at times scares me. He patrols one of the more crime infested areas of Dallas and he gets talked about or has to deal with such a low level of people that sometimes when he comes home his attitude is just as bad. If he has a good day, then he is the greatest man you could ever meet. How do I know that he won't flip on me...? What is life like with a police officer? I would hope he would leave his job, on the job. He is a good blackman, but his job is killing our future. How can I get him to leave the job at work ?

Dating a cop

Willis, I found that I am not the person

2007-06-27T22:31:00.000-05:00

Willis, I found that I am not the person I thought I was..... My son goes to El Centro College and now he is dating a white girl and it's taking all I can to stomach their relationship. When he brings her by the house....I just crinage and it kills me to see them hold hands and I find myself gettting my blood pressure up when she comes around. I can get over the eara I grew up in when a black man could never look at a white girl or woman. So when I see them, I have flash backs and I never knew I was this way untill my son started to date this white girl. Does this make me racist and is there anybody else that has goone thru this and can they tell me what they did.

A Mother

Willis, I’m a "nice guy"

2007-06-27T22:28:00.000-05:00

Willis, I’m a "nice guy" who never seems to be able to attract the good looking and fine ass women in Dallas or Ft worth.Women say I’m good looking but ATTRACTION DOESN'T MAKE SENSE to me. my good qualities like "niceness", "honesty" and "loyalty don’t mean JACK to these Metroplex women. These women seem to just love abusive dogs... and most DFW men stay in relationships with unhappy, domineering women. I’m from Houston and Homey don’t play that !These DFW women want STATUS and that is very important to them when it comes to what they want in a brother. They are almost NEVER attracted to men of "lower status" than themselves. This is why certain stereotypes exist, such as women not liking shorter men; a man with a hooptie or men who make a small amount of money will never get a date here in Dallas or ft worth. Willis, I get tired of my attractive female friends who date abusive dogs... and then tell me about the abuse they are putting up with... all the while I would have done ANYTHING for a chance to be with her fine ass !This kind of shit makes a brother think about moving back to Houston… Willis, ask the brothers, do you have to be funny and abusive to get a woman in DFW or what?I will be waiting for an answer on your show, I do enjoy your show, you and Alecia keep it real. This, I can’t get in H Town

Billy, from Houston

Crooner - Here he goes again

2007-06-27T22:27:00.000-05:00

Here he goes again My ex and I have been apart for a few years. Although I wrote to you a couple of years ago about his deceitfulness. His live in girlfriend left him and he started calling me seeing me all he while the two of them were still seeing one another too. She and I met at his place one evening. She moved back with him not long after that and he cut all communications between her and I. I cut all between him and I. Now here we are again, two years later and once again he is calling me up since the live in girlfriend has moved out. Already, he is lying to me because I emailed her to ask her of the things that he's told me happened with them. She's kind in responding but says that he is who I need to ask about them. He loves her but tries to deny it, its evident to see when he talks about her. Trying to make it seem as if all is doomed and she is all to blame. He forgets I was married to him once before and know him myself. I guess what I'm getting to is my mind is wanting to pay this no good man back, and the only way to do so is to allow him to trust me. I went through hell with him back then and he is trying to come back with the same intentions. NOT THIS TIME! I contacted his job, but hung up because I want this man to really no how I truly feel when its all done. I was going to talk with his boss and let him know he is a drug user, steals from the job and never where he's assigned to be. He's going to pay but I need time. His girlfriend told me that maybe I should just not answer his calls, or lead him on and to move on. It isn't as if we have been together. He just pops up in my life when his is in array. What do I do?

Crooner, if I sleep with a woman I don't know or care about

2007-06-27T22:23:00.000-05:00

Dear X ho! Bottom line--if I sleep with a woman I don't know or care about SEX is NOT going to make me care. (I stopped doing that years ago) That kind of sex is like scratching an itch. Once a man scratches, he's through. He ain't sitting around thinking about that spot that itched or how good it felt scratching it. He's moving on with his life until that spot itches again and it don't matter which hand he scratches it with, just as long as he gets rid of the itch. Too many women PRETEND they can handle a sexual fling, but wind up getting caught up and wanting us to romance and wine and dine them and pretend we're having a "relationship" when it's NOTHING but a booty call. Come on, ladies, y'all know I'm telling the truth. Unfortunately, ladies, you are part of our problem. You sleep with us BEFORE you know us or what we're about. Having sex with a man does not automatically make that a "relationship". Many women will deny they think like this but I'm speaking from personal experience. Also, ladies know when their men are fooling around and still turn a blind eye by getting mad at the other woman. Now, what kind of sense does that make? Why should that woman make YOU (a total stranger) a priority in her life? IF HE DID NOT MARRY YOU HE IS STILL SINGLE. The "other woman" is not breaking up a "happy home". Many women marry men who were cheating BEFORE they walked down the aisle and then are SHOCKED that a fancy wedding dress or an expensive walk down the aisle didn't change who he was. Why should he change? YOU let him know it was acceptable by sticking around that long. Ladies, start living with your eyes OPEN. Most shady men give themselves away one way or another, usually before the first 30 days. Women have to stop "rewarding" unfaithful men by pretending it ain't happening. All of us Black Men (BM) do not cheat. I do not cheat on my lady so don't buy the hype. I know other BM who do not but many men WILL cheat if there are NO real penalties for it. Stop jumping into bed with brothers YOU DON'T KNOW. That means fewer opportunities for men to cheat. Women have to STOP being so afraid to ask the important questions that would reveal his TRUE lifestyle. Worry LESS about what kind of job he has and what kind of car he drives and encourage him to talk about his past, particularly his past with women. OPEN those ears and listen. Does he put down his ex-women and blame them for everything? And don't be so vain. You are NOT a better woman than his last. If he dogged her out, you will probably be NEXT. Observe him when you are with him. Do you have his home number? Work number? Have you seen where he lives? Where he works? Is he secretive? Did you ask if he's married or engaged? How does he treat other people? Listen to what he says, NOT what you want to hear. Stop INTERPRETING the meaning of what he says to fit your purposes. If he says, "I'm not lookin' for nothing right now" -- DON'T tell yourself, "Aw, he just scared of getting hurt. I can change his mind.." NO YOU CAN'T. He said exactly what the hell he meant. BM don't have to lie when so many BW are already DEAF. If you can't answer BASIC questions about a man DON'T OPEN YOUR LEGS. I could kinda understand back in the days when sex wouldn't KILL people but now? there's no excuse and if a BW takes that huge risk of sleeping with a STRANGER then she better protect herself -- sexually AND emotionally. Show our asses to the door if we pressure you for sex too soon. Don't be afraid to be alone. After you give our asses some you will probably be alone anyway but now you feel like a fool. In other words, take your time and check us out. if we REALLY like you, we'll stick around. BUT if you decided to sleep with a man you hardly know, PROTECT yourself and keep your expectations to ZERO. We do not owe you a relationship or another date just because you had sex with us. That's not how it works, baby. I have TOO many female friends who give me horror stories that could have been avoided if they'd done their homework first OR moved SLOWER before giving up the panties. I try as a BM to give them the best advice I can but that won't mean a damn thing if BW continues to live in a dream world. You are TOTALLY RESPONSIBLE for your own sexual behavior the same as I am. Blaming the man won't change a damn thing. BW have to look in the mirror and take SOME of the blame for what's wrong with BM/BW relationships. Let me end by saying.... SEX DOES NOT = A RELATIONSHIP GIVING A MAN A READY-MADE FAMILY WILL NOT MAKE HIM COMMIT IF HE DOESN'T WANT TO A MAN WILL NOT RESPECT A WOMAN WHO DOES NOT RESPECT HERSELF OR HER BODY IF YOU TRADE SEX FOR MATERIAL THINGS YOU ARE PROSTITUTING YOURSELF IF HE DOESN'T TAKE CARE OF HIS OTHER CHILDREN WHY WOULD YOU HAVE A BABY WITH HIM? IF YOU REWARD A DOG WHY SHOULD MEN STOP BEING DOGS? BRING MORE TO THE TABLE THAN YOUR BODY. NO YOUR PUSSY IS NOT MADE OF GOLD. IT IS ONLY AS GOOD AS I THINK IT IS. BELIEVE THAT. Author: A Black Stud!

Willis Johnson, I dam near had a fight with my girl

2007-06-27T22:20:00.000-05:00

Willis Johnson

I dam near had a fight with my girlfriend last night. It was 11pm I was trying to get her in bed to ease my pain from the Mavericks losing their opener. However, she was up one and a half hours longer looking at those funny ass videos on your web site. When she finally got in the bed at 12:32 AM, this dam morning, her ass was still giggling about some Fruit Cake lady, George Bush jokes and some midget dancing bullshit. Man I wanted some show muff loving. So I laid there for ten minutes and she was now silent, I put my hands on her butt and her silly ass started giggling all over again. Her body was in the bed with me, but her dam mind was on the other side of the house at the computer. Now, you know I got an attitude, I told her if this shit keeps up, I will take the computer out the house. You know what she told me? She said "As long as I look at Sports and the TV is in the house", the computer will be in the house. I then said " I will kick you and that dam computer out the house" BUT, I said that to myself! Well the computer is still here in the house and I got my black ass out of bed, turned on this computer and now emailing you. It's 1:03am right now. I need some loving and my girlfriend is now fast asleep like a mug. What should a horny man do? Jimbo, sitting at the computer at 1:13am and wondering if anybody can feel my pain?